Setting Kids Up for Success When First Getting Started
Every parent knows the feeling of possibility when creating a Chore Chart for their kids. But, when first getting started it’s important to try and not overwhelm a child by adding too many things to their chart all at once.
A good way to start out is by keeping expectations simple at first and let kids get used to using a chart system and experience the sense of fulfillment that comes with accomplishment. And then build on this foundation by adding appropriate new chores and responsibilities to their chart over time.
As a child's ability to accept more responsibility develops and grows, introducing new chores is a good way to help keep their interest in using a Chore Chart.
And when it’s time to add some new responsibilities, consider including kids in the process by having them help choose new chores or picking a new background theme for their chart. The more kids feel they’re involved in making decisions, the more ownership they will feel about their new responsibilities and they'll be more excited as a result too.
Consistency helps kids develop a sense of responsibility for they know exactly what is expected of them. And having a simple routine for using a Chore Chart can really help keep things on track and running smoothly.
For example, here is the routine I use with my daughter: Every Sunday I print her chart and hang it on the fridge so she can easily refer to it. Then, as a part of her bed time routine, we'll get online and review her chart for the day. This way I can give her a hug and tell her I’m proud of her for what she has accomplished. And, we can also talk about any challenges or setbacks she may have had in order to help re-establish her focus.
Since all kids are different, there’s no "one-size-fits-all" approach regarding teaching responsibility. Therefore, it’s important to experiment to find out what works best for you and your family.