I am cheering for you. Girl it's very rewarding. I was very promiscuous when I was younger so growing up I didn't know how to differentiate love from sex. So I would sleep with a guy that I liked not taking the time to get to know the person. Then I would wonder why none of my relationships lasted. Me and few of my girlfriends decided to see who could go longer without sleeping with a guy. It started out as a bet then it turned into a spiritual journey for all of us. One of my friends told me she made a conscious decision to keep going with it and she stayed with her current husband several years before they had sex and eventually married. I figured hey there must be something to this getting to know the guy first thing. So when I was introduced to my husband I was frustrated because soon as you tell a guy your abstinent they're no longer interested. On our first date he told me and my friends he was going to marry me so I brushed him off told him I was being abstinent. He was so patient. Don't get me wrong he tried and persisted for the first few months and when I told him this was something I was serious about and I wanted this to last. He said okay Ill wait long as it takes. I knew from that moment this was where I wanted to be the rest of my life. Which only ended up being a year and a half because he proposed to me and we got married on 08~08~08. It was by no means easy but it was so worth it. It was the first time I had been in a meaningful relationship like this. Your decision to be abstinent says a lot about your character. It says you want more for your life and I wish you so much success.
Comments
Add a Comment
Sign In or Join Now to Comment