I have 2 boys and they drive me insane i know it sounds bad cause its only 2, but my 8 yr. old has a very smart mouth, very defiant, talks back and is failing school. My 5 yr old is still pooping his pants because he gets so wrapped up into a game or whatever it is that hes doing and will just poop in his pants(Peeing the bed at night too)He's also starting to lie and basically is picking up everything his brother does, he sees it all. I have been loosing my patience very easily, yelling and screaming, and then taking it out on my husband and its like ahhhhhh!!!! so I finally said enough is enough and found this website and it;s actually really cool. I have made some charts for them and they are going to start following them everyday(start teaching them responsibility)The kids like them. At the end of each week if they did good they get a reward, if they are bad they loose something they like a lot. I just hope this starts too work. I need some actual steps on how to discipline them without ruining my whole day because of it.

i know this all to well, i bought the total transformation programg and it is the best investmant i ever made, it teaches you how to change the wording in what you expect out of our children and it works great, i have an eight year old with an autism spectruim so behavior is very up and down this program has made wonderful strides with taking control back of the home front it teaches us how to do it the best way possible. good luck best wishes to you