Hi Kilyke! Sorry to hear about your setbacks, but don't let them get the best of you!! You can do this. And, try not to compare yourself to anyone (I know this is easier said than done). Look inward and try to figure out why you have set these goals, and how much it really means to you to accomplish them. If you really want it, you will make it happen. I set my goals back in December, and I continue to tweak and adjust my goals regularly so that they work for me. You have to create a detailed plan that is going to work for you, and if it isn't working don't be afraid to change it a bit. I used to think I failed if I had to adjust my goals, but now I know that it is just part of the journey...and if I want to attain my goals, I have to be flexible...